Make it right
24 Apr 2012 1 Comment
in Family, Fate, Inspiration, Karma, Life, love, Me, Parenting, Personal Opinion, POV, Relationships, Respect, Support Tags: amends, Faith, Inspiration, Life
We take alot if things 4 granted. We see something we don’t like & complain, some can’t see.
We say bad things to and about others; some can’t speak.
We spread lies/ rumors that are life changing.
People can lose alot because of lies; relationships, jobs, money, be imprisoned or worse yet, lose their lives; all because of lies.
Words are very powerful, use them wisely!
We complain about having to walk somewhere; some don’t have the luxury of having legs or the use of their legs.
We take things, hit, slap & punch others with our hands but some don’t have the use of theirs.
The bottomline is where there’s bad, there’s always worse.
We are quick to say ” fml” or my life sucks; think of the people who have had their lives snatched from them, they no long have options…
Life is too short to be living with regrets, make best choices possible. Mistakes happen but how you deal with it is what matters.
Make amends while you still can.
Don’t put off for tomorrow what can be done today!
Tomorrow may never come…
Appreciate what you’ve got, it could always be worse.
Don’t take your life or the people on it for granted, it could all be gone in the blink of an eye!
Make it right!!!
Continue to be blessed,
Hopelessly Bipolar & Loving it!
Resolutions
02 Jan 2012 1 Comment
in Family, Inspiration, Life, love, Parenting, Relationships, Support, Uncategorized
Happy New Year 2012!
Rome wasn’t built-in a day.
As with most things in life; it takes several tries to attain the desired outcome.
Instead of broadcasting resolutions we know are impossible to keep;
start off with the issues that you know you can work on & achieve.
Strive 4 excellence; always.
Commit to being a work in progress!
I’m committed to being the very best me that I can possibly be!
Be blessed,
Che’ xoxo
#WinningWorldWide
Nicole Carter Children’s Placekids Model Search
18 Aug 2011 Leave a Comment
in Family, kids, Life, looks, love, Parenting, Support, Uncategorized
Baby Girl Nicole Carter has been entered into the 2011 Children’s PLACEKids Model Search…
Nicole has the chance to win the following GRAND PRIZE:
A starring role at the PLACEkids Spring 2012 photo shoot travel & accommodations to their exclusive photo shoot location for each PLACEkids model search winner, an accompanying parent/guardian and one guest, a $500 shopping spree from The Children’s Place.
Visit http://childrensplace.prom o.eprize.com/model to submit your vote starting today through September 21, 2011.
Go to Nicole’s gallery and vote, Nicole’s Entry ID is 221954
Nicole R Carter
VOTE EVERYDAY now through September 21 Remember, EVERY VOTE DOES COUNT…
PLEASE SPREAD THE WORD to your family & friends. Thank you for your support & votes!
Nicole is my niece so please support me by supporting her.
I thank you all so very much!
#TeamWinning
Make Time
30 Jul 2011 Leave a Comment
in Inspiration, Life, love, Me, Parenting, Relationships, Uncategorized Tags: Goals, Life, love
GM All! Often we are unable to slow down long enough to enjoy life; the simple things that actually make it worth living.
We are so focused on everything but what really matters.
Money cannot buy happiness.
Sure it can provide us with the necessities & luxuries that one would associate with happiness.
At the end of the day when life gets to you can your money give you a reassuring hug and tell you that its going to be okay?
Can it comfort you when it seems as if nothing is going right, no matter how hard you try?
Can it tell you that you are amazing, appreciated, respected and loved beyond measure?
I’d say no. Now if your money can do all of that & then some, then you’re onto something truly special.
Make time for those that truly matter. It can be hard but think of what your life would be like without that special someone to love, respect,support, comfort & appreciate you, especially when you need it the most.
Don’t take for granted that they’ll continuously take a back seat to everything you have going on.
The same desires you have they have as well. No one wants to be viewed as a convenience, only to be “used” when necessary.
The same love and respect & appreciation you desire; they do as well.
Appreciate what you have while you still have it.
Make time for those that matter most!
Tomorrow is not promised; make a difference while you still have a chance.
The Clock is ticking!
Be Blessed, Che’ xoxo
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Protect Our Children
20 Jun 2011 3 Comments
in Adult, Awareness, Family, kids, Life, Parenting, Twitter Tags: Crimes, Pedophiles, sex
When the freedom of speech law was enacted I don’t think it as meant to shield the likes of Pedophiles and incestuous child molesting monsters.
Yet that seems to be the case.
Tonight I was made aware of profiles on Twitter tweeting about having Sex with children as young as 9 years old!
One such profile was of an alleged mother who engaged in sexual acts with her biological children. I failed to see how anyone could deem this to be acceptable, especially in a public forum like Twitter.
What’s even more horrifying is the fact that there are enumerable twitter accounts tweeting about forcible sexual contact with defenseless minor children.
I find it hard to believe that Twitter could be so Socially inept that they would allow such heinous behavior to be tolerated.
What is their moral obligation? Is there any? Granted they’re a Corporation, bereft of emotion and or compassion, but to allow such actions to continue should constitute promotion of Pedophelia and or Sexual crimes against minors.
I am appalled to say the least.
As parents we need to do any and everything in our power to protect the children. Even if they aren’t our children, they are being robbed of their innocence.
Someone has to protect our children.
Will you help fight for them or stand idly by?
The choice is yours, choose wisely.
Lend a hand any way you can!
Our Children are our Future.
Extensive online research I came across this site to report internet crimes.
http://www.ic3.gov/complaint/default.aspx
Be Blessed,
Che’
Happy Father’s Day!
19 Jun 2011 Leave a Comment
in Family, Funny, Inspiration, kids, Life, love, Parenting, Relationships Tags: Family, love, Respect
Happy Father’s Day! You deserve to be told how Special you are everyday! May you have the Happiest Fathers Day Ever! Continue to do the right thing, always, regardless of adversity.
At times the journey may be rough, its not about how many time you’ve fallen, its about your tenacity to get back up and keep trying!
We appreciate you 4 all you’ve done and will continue to do. Keep your head up!
Enjoy ur day!
Be blessed, Che’ xoxo
National Child Abuse Prevention
10 Apr 2011 Leave a Comment
in Awareness, Family, Inspiration, kids, Life, love, Parenting, Relationships Tags: Awarenss, Child Abuse, Prevention
Let me start by saying, I am no expert on this topic. I am merely stating my opinion.
I was a Victim of abuse.
Help is available.
You may think you should mind your business when you see a child being abused or neglected, thinking it has nothing to do with you.
But it does. That child may die at the hands of their abuser, what you knew could have been stopped. You could have save that child’s life!
Children are our future!
They’re a powerless population!
It is not their fault!
Children look to us for guidance, they trust us.
Disciplining a child shouldn’t be cruel, demeaning or hurtful.
There’s a difference between discipline & abuse. Hurt people hurt people!
Abuse takes on many forms,
It can be
Physical : hitting shoving etc,
Verbal and or Mental: saying mean hurtful things;
Sexual: sexual contact with a child, touching, penetration, conversation ; exposure to anything of a sexual nature,
Emotional: withholding love, respect, affection; support.
Neglect: not paying attention to your child’s health; educational, social; developmental needs; failure to provide preventative care; lack of concern for their developmental needs.
Most cases are never reported as there is a “stigma” attached to abuse of any kind.
When abuse of any kind occurs there are usually. Life long physical, emotional, health & developmental residuals.
There is scientific evidence to support the fact that abuse can lead to brain & motor defects. It can stunt social development as well.
Some of the most dangerous side effects of abuse isn’t visual. Emotional & mental scarring from abuse & neglect can often disrupt one’s daily life.
Victims may suffer from a wide range of emotional & social phobias, they may experience anxiety, distrust, paranoia, depression, suicidal tendencies, difficulty adapting to social situations, lack of self esteem’ confidence, feelings of worthlessness, they may themselves become abusive to others or endure abusive relationships themselves.
As a society, its our duty to report any suspected cases of abuse or neglect.
Not to abuse the system and victimize families by being vindictive and making knowingly false accusations just to satisfy a vendetta.
Our children are our future, let’s work together to safeguard them!
By working together we can sometimes prevent abuse and neglect, before it occurs or bring and end to it.
Lend A Hand, Any Way You Can!!!
Each one, teach one.
Be Blessed,
Che’
For more information and resources on child abuse and how we can protect our youth log on to
www.preventchildabuse.org
www.childwelfare.gov
http://bit.ly/e1Ov1I
Autism Awareness
05 Apr 2011 Leave a Comment
in Awareness, Family, Inspiration, kids, Life, love, Parenting Tags: Autism, support
Raising Awareness isn’t always about Money.
Add a Twibbon to your profile to show support today!
http://twb.ly/hqn3hb
Lead by Example
25 Mar 2011 Leave a Comment
in Family, Inspiration, kids, Life, looks, love, Parenting, Relationships Tags: Change
GM All, Thank you Father 4 this day! Lead by example; not by the do as I say; not as I do, protocol.
Be the model of what should be emulated, a tangible force to be reckoned with!
Be the epitome of the change you desire.
Be Blessed & Highly Favored, Che’ xoxo
Sacrifice
17 Feb 2011 1 Comment
in Family, Inspiration, Life, love, Parenting, Relationships Tags: Life, love, Sacrifices
GM All,
Today finds me in a highly reflective mood…
I was thinking about the Sacrifices we make on a daily basis that almost always go unnoticed.
So many tend to take our sacrifices for granted due to their selfish nature.
Being selfless is more often than not construed as a sign of weakness.
I see it as a major strength. The fact that you can and are willing to place the need of another above those of your own is to be commended.
Most simply are either unwilling or unable to do this.
All I can be is me; Not who you think I should be. #TakeMeAsIAm
While I am by no means perfect I continually strive to be the very BEST me that I can possibly be!
I am in No way interested in anyone who is unwilling to make sacrifices for what’s important in life.
Make time for what /those who, matter(s) most.
Life is about making sacrifices…
Be Blessed & Highly Favored in All things…
I’ll remain hopelessly bipolar,
Che’ xoxo
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