Have you ever met someone who is constantly blaming others for everything that goes wrong in their life?
It is never their fault, always someone else’s.
Every one is always “hating” on them.
Now don’t get me wrong, there are bona fide “haters” out there, who no matter what you do, the can find fault and criticize any and everything.
I know someone who is constantly involved in drama, gossips nonstop, spreads vicious rumors and is constantly saying that everyone is “hating on her”. We all know someone like this and to be quite honest, maybe we’ve been this person, to some extent or another.
Being a person of a certain age, one would think that “you” would be adult enough to handle most situations in a mature manner. But I guess, despite the age, “you” are still a child. (Apologies to the Children.)
Once a man twice a child, has that come full circle?
Every 5 seconds you ramble on and on about someone hating on you. Really who has the time? You’ve done nothing constructive with your life, so to me it isn’t worth a second glance…
(Is this you?) It could be….
Belittling and besmirching another’s character as a means of boosting your self confidence is yet another example of what you truly think of yourself.
The things that ARE being said about you, as hurtful and harsh as they may be, are true.
You sit “there”, wallowing in self pity, blaming everyone but yourself for your failed relationships, friendships or marriage. You need to be an adult and take responsibility for your actions or lack thereof, devise a plan of action to overcome the obstacles in your life.
You thrive on drama, you continually invite it into your cipher. You are constantly at odds with someone. You constantly betray everyone’s trust. You are not a victim.
Take stock of your life, if you are the common denominator in a series of “incidents”, it would be reasonable to believe that you are the catalyst for these occurrences. No one is targeting you. You bring these situations on yourself.
You wonder why turmoil comes to you like a heat seeking missile. You constantly try to monopolize situations, yet you lack the tenacity to finesse this.
It’s irrelevant what you look like on the outside, clothes do not make the “man”. Beauty is skin deep, but self hatred seeps into the depths of your soul and then manifests its self as a bad attitude. You are miserable and it shows.
We all have things about our life we’d like or need to change. Start now, there’s no time like the present.
Misery loves company, at this time I respectfully decline this and any future invitations into your world of indigence.
You need to focus your energies on something that is constructive, positive and edifying, take up a hobby or something. Volunteer.
You can’t keep doing the same things but expect different results….
If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got, which isn’t much!
It’s a never ending cycle.
Seek professional help.
It is what it is….