I’ve often repeated the quote that silence is indeed golden. That being said most men seem to have a desire for said silence, its like a craving, but when they do manage to get it they find that the silence is deafening.

When their woman becomes silent they become worried. And rightly so.

Your woman doesn’t stay in your ear because she likes the sound of her own voice. She’s alerting you to the fact that something is amiss.

If you’re a wise man and take heed to what your woman is saying you’ll rectify the issue before its too late.

You see Women go silent for 1 of two reasons:

a) You’ve placated her and she now has no reason to be in your ear…


b). She’s placated herself. The latter being an option I guarantee you’d rather not have. If she’s stayed in your ear trying to get an issue resolved to no avail, then the only option left is to find her own resolution. 9 out of 10 times you’ll have been replaced without further notice. Or she may seek the relief she desires elsewhere in order to give you the much needed silence you crave.

Either way you’ll have what you want… But at what cost???

So again I’ll say, Silence is indeed golden, or is it?

Embracing the silence within,
Che’ xoxo


5 thoughts on “Silence

  1. Awesome blog Che, mines as boring as batshit lol.
    If this is what bipolar does for you – maybe i need a shot of it 🙂 You have a brilliant talent in writing from all forms – well done.

  2. I agree with your view on silence. I offer one caution: do not lose yourself in silence. Our feelings must be expressed or they will defeat us and we lose ourself amidst the silence.

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