Mixed Messages


GM World! Today’s topic is Mixed Messages. Ever wonder what signals you’re sending out?
Yesterday I witnessed a case of Mixed Messages like no other…

While your lips may verbalize one thing, your body language speaks volumes more.
Sometimes its what you don’t say that weighs heaviest on another’s mind…

Think about this…

If you are professing to love someone and they don’t seem to believe you, could it be that you haven’t shown them that you do?
Are your actions telling a different tale?

Chances are that’s exactly what’s happening…

Think about how you’d like someone to demonstrate their love to you…

Increased attention, kind gestures, tokens of appreciation, interest in the things that are important to them, care & concern…

Or on the flip side…

You aren’t interested in someone’s advances; you’ve tried unsuccessfully to communicate this to them…
Could it be that you are being overly friendly, excessively flirty and seemingly interested in them?

This may be the impression you are conveying…
If that’s the case, can you now see why they aren’t being deterred?

Have you ever heard the phrase ” Your ways and actions show and prove?”

That’s exactly what must be done.

Granted at times its hard to effectively communicate your feelings, be it negative or positive, without hurting someone’s feelings and or being misunderstood…

Ask yourself, are you being an effective communicator?

Take a long hard look at yourself and see what could be done differently.

You just maybe sending out mixed messages…
Until this is rectified, you’ll never achieve the desired results…

I’ll leave you with this thought…
Why not try to live your best life? If you don’t have a vested interest in self improvement, why should any one else? Be a work in progress 🙂

Enjoy your day,
Have a productive day all,
Che’ xoxo

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