Happy Birthday to Me

I am grateful for Life!!

I can’t keep calm

Yay! Chapter 44

I pray that Olodumare continues to bless me with an abundance of love, respect, good health, Happiness & prosperity.

Asé

Ché ✨

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Day 5 #365GratitudeChallenge

On Day 5 of my #356GratitudeChallenge

I am grateful for the people in my life who love, support & accept me for the perfectly flawed being that I am.

Thank you.

I appreciate you all.

Thank you for being in my life.

May Olodumare’s blessings rain down upon you Always, in All Ways,

✨👑Ché👑✨

Healing

Thank you Father for this day.

Often the apology we feel is necessary, may never come.
You have to be okay with that.
Forgiveness is more about you and less about them.

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Forgive yourself for seeing more in someone, than they were able to see in themselves.

Forgive yourself for holding on way past the expiration date, for having hope in a hopeless situation.

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Forgive yourself for loving someone who wasn’t readily available to return the love that you so freely gave.

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Forgive yourself for treating someone better than they deserved.
Forgiveness is necessary for healing.

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With time and appropriate care, these wounds will eventually heal.

As long as we stop touching them.
Reopening wounds puts you at risk for infection, which can cause further damage.

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Give yourself the opportunity to heal. Stay away from what caused the wound.

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You deserve to be treated with love & respect.
You are worthy. You ARE Enough.
Never apologize for knowing your Worth.

May you be blessed beyond measure today,

💋💋Che’💋💋

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How love is shown…

This is something I had a hard time understanding.

Everyone wasn’t raised the same, everyone wasn’t taught how to love and be loved and in turn, show love.



Some are doing the best that they can. 

If someone was never shown love, doesn’t understand the concept of love,

How can you expect them to show love?



In my opinion one must be fully present and aware of what love is, in order to recognize it , accept it and in turn reciprocate.

Many are in love with the concept of love.



You must first love yourself, completely and unapologetically before entertaining the idea of loving someone else.

True love often comes along when you least expect it.

Be open to loving and being loved.

Be honest about how you feel. Love needn’t be perfect, just real.



Love, honesty & understanding are just a few of they components of love.

May you find the love that you so richly desire & deserve.

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Be Happy

I asked myself that question and the answer was no. I was not and haven’t been happy in quite some time.

I had to honesty re reevaluate my life and came to the conclusion that I was holding on to way too much baggage and responsibilities that weren’t mine.
I have since began releasing them.

I have allowed people and circumstances to control my life for far too long.
I WAS an enabler. I MADE excuses for the people that I loved.
Excuses that enabled them to continue to inadvertently (or not) take me for granted. I stood by and allowed myself to be mistreated by those that I loved.

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No longer will I suffer from self imposed laryngitis.
I have found my voice. I will reclaim my life.

I forgive those who have mistreated me. Most Importantly I FORGIVE MYSELF for Allowing it to happen.

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Give yourself the permission to be the best you.

You can’t move forward to embrace your future if your arms are laden with the baggage of the past.

Let go of the weights that have held you back. The greatest of journeys start with that 1 first step.

Step out on faith.

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Let it go! Life awaits you!

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Make your next move your best move!
Be Great!

Elizabeth Lauten forced to resign

You’d have to be living under a rock to not know who Elizabeth Lauten is.
In case you are, she’s the GOP Staffer who made the ill fated decision to ridicule the POTUS’ bored teenaged daughters for their behavior during the Presidential Turkey Pardoning Ceremony.IMG_1190.JPG
First Daughters’ Smirk & wicked side eye on deck!

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Are we done yet? Ugh!

Now I personally found it refreshing that they were honest enough to show their boredom & displeasure. Why you ask?
They are NORMAL Teenagers! That’s why. My kids do it, so does the POTUS’ kids. But everyone didn’t share my opinion.

Elizabeth Lauten, Former ( Yes, I did say FORMER, as in not currently employed by, former) Communications Director for Tennessee Republican Rep. Steve Fincher and a former communications staffer for the Republican National Committee, wrote this scathing post on her personal Facebook page, that went viral :

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Really Elizabeth? You of all people should have known better.

This post set off a fire storm of events on Social media, namely Twitter.
The Twitterazzi aka #BlackTwitter #BlackTwitterMafia launched one of the most vicious campaigns I can recall, since I joined the Militia in 2009.
Elizabeth Lauten became a trending topic #ElizabethLauten # FireElizabethLauten.

Demanding her head on a platter ( figuratively) or the next best thing, her resignation. Either would have sufficed.

Imagine my delight when I read that she was forced to resign !
http://www.cnn.com/2014/12/01/politics/gop-staffer-resigns-over-criticism-of-obama-daughters/

Adults need to understand whether personal or political, children are off-limit. Point blank. Period.

I’d say justice was served. I, for one am happy.

#missionaccomplished
So to her I say: Think twice, type once.

In my opinion the POTUS was like

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#YoureFired * Donald Trump Voice, Toupee not included😂😂😂😂

#GirlBye

Know your rights when stopped

In the age where human life is being blatantly disregarded and innocent, unarmed individuals are being callously gunned down in the street by the Police, it’s important to know your rights.

Whenever I get stopped, after turning my car off and removing the keys from my ignition, I place my keys in plain sight then I activate my video recorder.

Here are some Important points to note:

First and foremost, be respectful, there is nothing worse that being an agitator! Remember they have guns, you don’t want to be on the receiving end of a bullet!

1. You CAN ask why you’re being stopped.
” May I ask why I’m being stopped?”

2. You CAN refuse to have your vehicle searched.
” I do not consent to any searches”.

3. You CAN film and or record the stop and questioning.
(Though they’ll say you can’t)

4. You have the right to refuse to answer any questions.
Please use this right!

SHUT UP!!!

Most will be nervous, as is your right, but keep your mouth shut, you may say something that can be used against you!!!

5. You have the right to ask if you’re being detained.
Ask “Am I being detained? Or am I free to go?” of they say you’re not being detained, you can leave, if they say you are being detained, keep your mouth shut. You are under no obligation to say anything else.

Please be safe out there.

Not every police officer you encounter will be bad, there are some who take their oath to protect & serve very seriously!

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